Coffee Coach

A bit more than a month ago, I had the idea to just sit in a public space one day, and offer career advice to anyone that wanted it.

I was absolutely not sure how I was going to make it happen, or what the format would look like, or which of a million possible things would go wrong, but I didn’t really dwell on it. I just picked an arbitrary Saturday a half-dozen weeks in the future and announced that I would be doing it, and called it “Coffee Coach” (since I’m a pretty big caffeine addict, and also because I didn’t want to waste too much time thinking of a name).

I committed first. I could figure everything else out later.

The idea came from two pieces of information that were rattling around in my brain. One, the system by which people are matched with jobs is horribly, horribly broken. And two, I was actually pretty good at navigating that broken system. As bad as it is, it’s bad in certain predictable ways that I’ve had a lot of experience with. So I actually have some expertise that could help people.

In an ideal world, people wouldn’t need that help. In an ideal world, transaction costs would be minimal to the point of being negligible and potential employers would have good ways of correctly evaluating real skills and traits in people, instead of both parties having to maneuver through a byzantine and ever-growing system of proxies, guesswork and sometimes outright lies in order to get good people into good jobs.

We do not live in that world.

Until we do, I’ll keep doing my best to help people find the way through the thicket. Today I sat in a beautiful park in Philadelphia and did that.

It wasn’t a huge crowd. In fact, it was three people. But each of those three people came to me with worries, concerns, and problems. They felt stressed or stuck or anxious, and they were all struggling with some part of a system that is a huge part of almost all of our lives, yet that we’re mostly woefully unprepared for. And I helped them prepare.

They each left a little lighter. One of them had an interview coming up for a big opportunity, and she was worried she wasn’t good enough; we practiced and shared tips until she felt way more confident. Another has some circumstances that made it very difficult for her to find work, and was looking for advice on how to even look for things that could fit her specific situation; we talked strategy, brainstormed and found multiple ideas that could work. And the third was a recent graduate with no clear career path ahead of her who felt demoralized and intimidated by life; I listened, we talked, and we worked through a whole new way of looking at the world that left her energized and ready to try new things.

In the grand scheme of things, this might be small. But I got what I was after. I put out some positive energy into the world. I helped a small number of people in a small way. But those little bits add up. I’m happy.

Niches

We live in a big, big world.

Often people’s ambitions are too broad to start. They want to sell a product or service to a demographic that is way too large. I think a lot of the motivation behind this is the belief that if you don’t cast a wide net, you won’t have enough of a market to sustain yourself.

Let’s say you have a product or service aimed at people who work in education. Well, that’s a broad market, both in terms of your potential customers and in terms of your competition. There are lots of products and services aimed at people in education. You get easily lost in a crowd, it’s hard to get traction, and you can drop off easily.

Now imagine narrowing your focus. Instead of all education professionals, stick to just teachers. And instead of just teachers, aim your product at kindergarten teachers only.

Guess what? In the US, that’s still 160,000 people – because our world is so big that even very narrow niches have lots of people in them. But more importantly, owning a niche lets you become THE person in that niche.

“Is there any good organization software for education professionals?” Yeah, tons. “Is there a good organization program for specifically kindergarten teachers?” Yeah, it’s called KinderManage and it’s custom-made for exactly you! That’s a much easier sell.

I’m far more likely to engage with a product or service that feels directly tailored to my demographic than buy from a much larger company where it feels like I’m the one who has to change myself to fit them instead of the other way around.

Getting good at your niche lets you be the big fish in a custom-made small pond. You can pick your clients, you have way less competition, and you can become a major name. If you want to grow from there, it’s easy – because you established your reputation.

This isn’t just advice for entrepreneurs, either. Even if you’re looking for companies to work for, remember that smaller niches have less competition for jobs, too.

Don’t be afraid of specialization!

New Month’s Resolution – August 2019

I wrote last month about a new thing I want to try, called a “New Month’s Resolution.” I liked it, so I’m sticking with it!

Last month I resolved to build something new. I did! It didn’t at all take the form I expected – I intended to try to build a swing set, and instead I built an indoor play area. It involved a lot of heavy lifting, figuring out how to assemble things without instructions or even all of the correct parts, and at least one stupid injury. But the end result is a cool playpen for my little ones and a new crafting desk in the same room, so I can control the chaos a little better. I’m happy with it. It’s not what I intended, but that’s totally okay.

That’s what I like about these New Month’s Resolutions. They’re flexible. They’re short-term and it’s okay to mess around with them. They’re low-pressure, but still moving me in the right direction.

So, what do I want to do for August?

I’ve been very busy lately, so I’ve let something slip that I actually consider very important – dedicated reading time. (That’s not an excuse, by the way! It’s my own fault for not putting the big rocks in first.) So I’m committing to that this month.

I don’t want to say “I’ll read X books,” because that’s not the point. It’s about the satisfaction in my life that I get from reading. So I’m putting myself back on the requirement of one hour of uninterrupted reading per day, and we’ll see what I learn from it. Tune in next month to see how it goes!

What’s your New Month’s Resolution?