We thrive on shared experiences. There is a connection that can go so much deeper than communication can ever create, and it comes from experiencing something that affects you on a deeply emotional level with others. When the emotion is negative, they call it “trauma bonding” and it can still create some of the deepest and truest friendships despite the dark origins. This is also why such strong but unlikely friendships can be forged in youth; the emotional experiences are simply stronger.
Go see live music. Go see live music that you love, and go see it with people.