There is a configuration for your life that will make it easier. Chances are, that configuration looks weird to outsiders. It might even look weird to you!
Someone was recently talking about married couples sleeping in separate beds, or even separate rooms. That might seem weird, or even look like the marriage is loveless. But maybe that couple has opposite work schedules, different sleeping preferences, or any number of other factors? Rather than sacrifice a good night’s sleep to seem normal, they configured their life to better suit them.
The point is, everyone is different. They have different needs, strengths, challenges, desires. Everything from when you set your alarm to how you eat at a restaurant is yours to control. Find the patterns that make your life easy and happy, and screw “normal.”
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