When we only have an idea of something, we fill in the rest in our imagination. We take the core concept and apply our own optimism or pessimism to it, and that can end up creating an enormous fiction.
Ideas are meant to be tested. You might think it’s going to be awesome to work at the ice cream place because you love ice cream – but when you actually start you find it’s not exactly a whimsical Wonka-esque experience. Or you might think that going on vacation with your in-laws is going to be a drag, but you soon discover that they’re actually party animals and you have a fantastic time.
Don’t fall in love – or hate – with ideas. Find ways to test them and then take the best parts for the next idea. Save love for real life.