All things are changing their shape over time. There is no such thing as static, no permanence. Nothing can be held. You can grow in the shape that matches the things you like, and you can nudge those things a little in your direction, too.
If you find something you haven’t paid attention to in a long time, its shape may be unrecognizable to you now. That doesn’t mean it can’t fit in the tableau of your life, but it may have to fit in a different spot. Or maybe there’s no gap that quite allows it, and nothing you’d prefer to shift to make it so. Sometimes this is just how things happen.
That too, is growth.
The Opportunity Machine 