You aren’t trying to balance all the things in your life, as if they were working against each other and your job is to keep the peace. At least, you shouldn’t be.
Every aspect of your life is part of a planetary system, with you as the star they orbit around. Their gravity affects the other spheres in the same way that Earth’s gravity affects Mars’ orbit. Your career orbits you, and individual jobs orbit your career like moons to a planet.
Your family is a gas giant, with individual members becoming major moons. Your bad habits and vices collect like an asteroid belt, putting craters in the surface of the nearby planets. Some orbits are elliptical; they will at times be closer to or farther from you.
But ever, you are the center.
Their movement is part of an important system, and that system’s energy is all connected. The moon controls the tides on Earth, and so it is with the harmony (or lack thereof) between the aspects of your life.
Use the orbits, use the harmony. Do things in their season, and respect their gravity.