If you plant two trees, they will diverge in their growth almost immediately. The same species of tree, watered the same way, planted in the same soil, will still diverge. This is not a failing of the trees nor their environment; this is simply the nature of growth.
All growth comes from discomfort. All discomfort is unique. Therefore, all growth must be your own. As you become more of who you are, you do it alone.
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