The hardest hurdles to overcome are the ones you through in front of yourself. It’s impossible to argue with yourself and not lose – if you’re of two positions, one of them has to. So it becomes very easy, very tempting, to just pick the side you wanted anyway.
There are multiple versions of you in the future, and all of them are fishing for you. All of them are putting bait on their hooks and attempting to drag you into their particular future reality. All the time. You will be dragged, kicking and screaming, into some future. Pick the future you want.