We are social creatures. We play games. We invent things to do with one another, often to sharpen some other piece of our minds and hearts. It’s healthy.
Some hobbies are introspective, meant to be enjoyed alone, but even these help create new wrinkles in your brain and personality that ultimately guide you in your social element.
Bored people are boring; there’s too much to do out there to be bored, and too many people who want to do more. They want to do it with you, too.
The Opportunity Machine 