Without knowing it, you are carrying around burdens. You are burdened by things that won’t work, things that could be better, things that won’t help you. You don’t even know you have this weight, because you haven’t failed in the right way yet.
Every failure is a chance to shed some of those burdens. Discard the bad ideas now that you’ve tested them and found them wanting. Get rid of the chains holding you back, once you realize them for what they are.
Failure is a chrysalis you emerge from, beautiful and triumphant and unburdened.